Happiness & Attitude

“You've gotta dance like there's nobody watching,
Love like you'll never be hurt,
Sing like there's nobody listening,
And live like it's heaven on earth.” 
― William W. Purkey

Most people I know don’t know me, the real me.  Most of them are curious to know the secret of me be happy always. Some of them think I am a gifted child with no problems and worries, some say I wish I was like you, you are so happy all the time.
Only some close friends who I trust knows that unhappy part of me.

No one person in truth is born with golden spoon, even if they have prosperity and inheritance that they could spend sleeping entire life. I believe that each person is born in this world to make a difference in someone life, if we think about it each and every one of us are people who make a difference in small ways every day. 

At the age of 21 just like any girl of my age I have a million things to worry about, In fact as boys say Girls Drama Queen factor is also a big influence specifically worrying about things that do not matter and the things that do matter.  Everything does matter when you can look at it at that persons view.

People say that your life is in your control, you can be who you want to be. I would agree on that   me as girl I don’t think my life is all in my control and i can’t do what I want, yet I am someone who still wants my life to be in my control, Happiness is what I deserve in my life, many things you don’t want may happen to make you miserable, yet I have my way of finding loopholes to make me feel fortunate.
Life would be boring if it’s not gloomy on and off.  You learn from the experience, if the events are unwelcome you become more expert in tackling them. 
My happiness is about my satisfaction, the joy of living with the smile and the joy of bringing smile on others face. Happiness cannot be bought but it can be created within you. 

“In one minute you can change your attitude in that minute you can change your entire day.” –Spenser Johnson.  This is quote influenced me to be the person who I am now, to be a carefree girl, to be a person who adore each moment, to accept the unexpected and to help myself feel better.

Things I do to change my attitude in minute,
1. I decide to stop reacting for the situation (Crying)

2. I decide to move forward.

3. I decide to focus on something which would bring a smile to my face. (Music, favorite person)
and just like that I feel better, try it and you will feel better too.

You life might not be in your hands, your future may not be in your hands but your happiness is always in your hands.
Sometimes you might have a career which you are not happy with, but your career is not the only piece which makes you, your happiness is within you and you have plenty of things to be happy about. So why not appreciate everything around you which brings you smile.

In Life you lose not once but uncountable times and yet you can win, you can only rise from a deep fall with a positive attitude towards your life and the pain it brings to you. And remember you are not the only person who lose and you are not the only person who suffers, like I said even a billionaire son who has inheritance to spend luxuriously for next 200 years would have ups and downs and worries in life, yes what a middle class person face and what a billionaire face might be different kind yet the pain would be same. No gain without pain whoever it may be rich or poor, beautiful or ugly, popular or unknown; with no partiality this world you live in has its charm to push you to the darkest. All you should understand is it’s not just you but everyone has problems so sooner you realize with your attitude, Positive attitude you can move forward rise above all with a beautiful smile. J